But his work implicitly rejects this outlook. Expressive writing encourages us to see our misfortunes not as flaws that make us unfit for worldly success (or otherworldly heaven), but as the seeds of our growth. Pennebaker found that the writers who thrived after pouring their hearts onto the page tended to use phrases such as Ive learned, It struck me that, I now realize, and I understand. They didnt come to enjoy their misfortunes. But theyd learned to live with insight.

Bittersweet by Susan Cain