Everybody enjoys what feels good. Everyone wants to live a carefree, happy, and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing sex and relationships, to look perfect and make money and be popular and well-respected and admired and a total baller to the point that people part like the Red Sea when they walk into the room. Everybody wants that. Its easy to want that. A more interesting question, a question that most people never consider, is, What pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out. For
Mark Manson,
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson