So what are you going to do about it? There are really only three doors you can go through here: 1.You can deny the facts and rage against declinesetting yourself up for frustration and disappointment. 2.You can shrug and give in to declineand experience your aging as an unavoidable tragedy. 3.You can accept that what got you to this point wont work to get you into the futurethat you need to build some new strengths and skills.

From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks