What does that mean? I asked again. Look, Im always going to be that fifteen-year-old boy whose girlfriend broke up with him. Thats always going to be me. So, who are you? Who am I? I was quiet, and once again that indestructible memory hit me. Then I just blurted it out. Im the little girl who would run after school every day in third grade because these boys hated me because I was... not pretty. Because I was... Black. Will stared at me as if seeing me for the first time and just nodded. My throat got tight and I could feel the tears welling up. Memories are immortal. Theyre deathless and precise. They have the power of giving you joy and perspective in hard times. Or, they can strangle you. Define you in a way thats based more in other peoples tucked-up perceptions than truth.

Finding Me by Viola Davis