All you have to do, he tells me, is give a little bit of understanding to the possibility that life might not have been fair. The trouble with good fortune is that we tend to equate it with personal goodness, so that if things are going well for us and less well for others, its assumed they must have done something to have brought that misfortune on themselves while we must have worked harder to avoid it. We speak of ourselves as being blessed, but what can that mean except that others are not blessed, and that God has picked out a few of us to love more? It is our responsibility to care for one another, to create fairness in the face of unfairness and find equality where none may have existed in the past.

These Precious Days by Ann Patchett