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In a negotiation, thats called labeling. Labeling is a way of validating someones emotion by acknowledging it. Give someones emotion a name and you show you identify with how that person feels. It gets you close to someone without asking about external factors you know nothing about (Hows your family?). Think of labeling as a shortcut to intimacy, a time-saving emotional hack.

Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss