Avoidance is a passive-aggressive way of expressing that you are tired of showing up. Hoping the problem will go away feels like the safest option, but avoidance is a fear-based response. Avoiding a discussion of our expectations doesnt prevent conflict. It prolongs the inevitable task of setting boundaries. Thoughts of fleeingI wish I could drop everything and run awayare a sign of extreme avoidance. Fantasies of spending your days alone, ignoring calls, or hiding means you are seeking

Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab